Samantha 3000 Over Women
I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.
Ecclesiastes 7:26–28.
“I agree with Makau. Depends on the need.”
“Sii tungoje part 2 ndo muone if he’s still on the same side”
That was me chatting with a friend of mine who runs a podcast called Break Time On Westside. I stumbled upon one of his videos that took me to the snap decision I made sometimes back...
Back in high school I had made a promise after four and so years of trial and error. At that period I was trying to impress a high school crush who happened to be the hottest in the IGCSE side of the school. So many hints were just enough to decide that after periods of failure, I’d land the girl I wanted. Much so that I made a crude promise; in the event I failed to get her, I’d cease getting women, cut down on my involvements with women and focus on everything else.
I got to implement my promise when she declared that she wasn’t interested. It was easy at the start and wound up absorbing it. That was before I joined USIU and the promise I made shattered with the multitude of gorgeous ladies that I met along the way.
Right now I’m in that position again. As was the case in high school, I found myself liking someone, signs pointed out that I’d get her, promising myself I’d desist from women if I failed. And yes, I did. Badly. I stopped…or rather cut down on shooting shots and chasing skirts and began looking at and working on myself. In short, I Went My Own Way.
Samantha 3000 vs Women
Not too long ago geniuses created advanced sex robots, dubbing them Samantha. The idea was for them to replicate the actual sexual activity between man and woman, with the man able to experience the same bedroom bullying as the regular Wairimu would give him
Being the future replacement of regular women, Samantha drew angry reactions from ladies threatened with the idea of them being replaced by a humanoid with nuts and bolts. Moreover it doesn’t come cheap. One would have to part with a marked price starting from $3,000.
However with the manner at which dowry here in Africa is being overpriced and women disregarding the importance of Men in their lives and purchasing sex toys at an alarming rate, Samantha becomes a worthy investment. It’s simply because it can satisfy the ordinary man, when ordinary women especially of this generation have failed or refused to do so, demanding pesa ya (money for) weave before an orgasm.
Men Going Their Own Way
So, what am I really up to? What is this path I’ve decided to take for myself after efforts in getting women have gone to waste?
MGTOW or “Men Going Their Own Way” is a lifestyle, a philosophy and a movement that is growing among men of all countries, who have understood how modern society is vastly unfair to men and how they have to reject exploitative relationships with women in order to truly be free and have a good quality of life.
It is growing in popularity in places as far apart as Japan, India, USA…even in our very own Republic of Kenya. It has resulted in a demographic crisis where men are simply refusing to marry and prefer to remain single, though this lifestyle is not the only factor for that crisis.
It is often accused of being a toxic belief but MGTOW is a positive and life affirming belief. An MGTOW is free to do as he wants, without being pressured by common society to marry and do what his wife wants or what society thinks he should want.
In the relationships arena it works like this: If the MGTOW prefers no-commitment sexual relationships with multiple women, it’s acceptable. If he prefers to be in a relationship with one woman (without the legal trappings that come with marriage), it’s also acceptable. If he prefers to “go monk” and avoid relations with women completely, that is also acceptable. Changing between any of these roles is similarly acceptable.
The main aim in MGTOW is to live life stress free as one wishes, to pursue one’s interests and hobbies, earn money to spend on oneself as one likes, make life choices without any external pressure. MGTOW says you don’t have to pursue a career that’s in line with what you studied in campus. Jeff Koinange started out as a flight attendant at Kenya Airways before moving into journalism and becoming one of the most popular news anchors. I know of a guy who studied law but is now working at a media house as a writer. One can follow any profession, from soldier to writer to artist in the entertainment industry, as per one’s interests.
There is no need to earn extra money and get extra pressure to provide for one’s family and kids. This freedom from pressure to provide also allows the MGTOW extra time and mental space to engage in creative or relaxing activities outside of work, rather than the added marital tensions daily once he returns home from work. He can also use the added free time to make more friends, reconnect with old friends and have an active social life. You are doing you without following a path fixed by the common society not after your best interests.
They Hate Us
MGTOWs are ridiculed by wider society who’s shocked by the carefree lifestyles and ultimately do their best to shame them as incels (involuntary celibates- guys who can’t get laid but want to) or woman haters…or even gays. This is simply because they refuse to follow what the rest of society thinks is normal (a conventional married life, with wife and kids, living in a big flat or house working hard to pay off a huge debt on mortgage and huge expenses to take care of the wife and school fees for the kids and so on) and refuse to take what seems to be a huge risk to one’s well being.
I asked guys in a WhatsApp group what they understood by MGTOW and they didn’t even know what that meant. It is what our society has built us to; men who are slaves to salary earnings and commitment to a woman for life. The lifestyle of MGTOWs and the growing number of men adopting it is by default, a threat to society. If the MGTOWs refuse to be a part of society, where will these women find the men to look after them?
This is probably the reason why there is no equivalent WGTOW (Women Going Their Own Way) movement in anything with numbers similar to MGTOWs. The feminists, who claim to be all for equality between men and women, yet want preferable laws and benefits for women alone, are unable to come to terms with this growing MGTOW phenomenon which exposes their hypocrisy so easily.
MGTOWs, of course, do not care what society thinks of them or how other people are behaving, rather they follow the live and let live kind of philosophy.
They have figured out that while sex is good in itself, it is not worth a lifetime of slavery where all one’s choices are constrained and one simply cannot be what one wants to be. Even sex with one’s girlfriend or wife becomes less frequent and less enjoyable when one grows older, thus higher rates of cheating. The man works harder and harder not in control of how his money is spent, most of it going to a female partner who might be using you to fulfil her needs and doesn’t even love you.
Of course MGTOWs believe there are good women too, but the risk of committing to one woman, paying for her hair, clothes, kids’ schooling etc and forgoing one’s own interests for just one life is not worth taking.
Also divorce is very unkind to men and the process itself is worse than being approved to practice law in this country. It is however beneficial and risk free for the women. This is because of the existing anti male laws and legal frameworks, that force the husband to pay huge maintenance and alimony for the wife and encourage false allegations against the husband. In other words, divorce is anti-man and encourages for women to take part of or everything a man worked so hard to achieve, including his own house.
Therefore the choice for men to go their own way is too easy. Besides, they will have more money to spend, lower stress levels, less of job pressure because it doesn’t take much money to maintain a simple lifestyle. They’ll also experience higher happiness levels because they can concentrate on what they really want to do in life. Even sex is perhaps more likely to be more enjoyable and possible with multiple partners if one is not committed to one person.
MGTOWs vs MRAs
Unlike Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs), MGTOWs do not seek to change the biased system such that it becomes equal for men and women. They have simply given up on the system and made a lifestyle choice: to not let every aspect of their lives, how they eat, how they spend money, whom they can be friends with etc be dictated by their female partners…or any female in general.
MGTOW is not an organized movement, unlike MRAs, with some central committee deciding where it should go and what actions to take. It is just individuals deciding that this is the only viable option left to them to live a peaceful life.
The few MGTOWs I know have washed their hands by escaping abusive, passionless marriages and victimised by biased gender laws, a gynocentric society and court system. They therefore do not wish to repeat the same mistake by marrying again. It is also worth it to note that a growing number of unmarried Kenyan men are wising up to the situation and steering clear of relationships. Men have even stopped trying to get women not just because they discovered their true nature or they simply couldn’t (they tried and failed) but the idea of being in a relationship is like a horse tied to its reins; no freedom to do as they please. Whoever thinks otherwise is selling you something.
The MGTOW is a growing men’s lifestyle movement that tries to steer clear of a society that forces men into marrying women and a lifetime of slavery. However it is for all men to think carefully and decide whether this is the direction they choose to take. As of now we still have millions of Men who would drop what they’re doing to attend to women who will not even look at them a second time. Men who would change their lifestyles completely in a whiff to satisfy the women they’re attracted to.
It therefore comes to this. We keep reading articles of someone’s wife did this to someone’s husband and vice versa. If MGTOW was a thing and it should be, we would be reading less of that and more of how our government keeps taking more loans.
Anyway I shall be Going My Own Way. Feel free to join. Or you can let Njeri drain your hard earned savings and throw you into huge debts before she dumps you for a guy that barely knows when her birthday is.
The choice is yours.
M.M
